HEY Girls! Tips How to date younger men!

Why do younger men love older women – and how can you snare a young buck? Age gap romance is all the rage. Look at Hollywood, where younger men have replaced miniature pooches as the hip accessory

Count 'em: Demi Moore is 16 years older than Ashton Kutcher, Eva Longoria eight years older than Tony Parker and Reese Witherspoon four years older than the delectable Jake Gyllanhaal. Over the hill? Not a bit.

As in celebland, so in real life. In the US, almost one-third of women aged 40-69 are dating men who are 10 or more years their junior.

How are these older women snaring their fit youthful suitors? How do they hang onto them? Read on to find out.

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Why younger men dig older women

1. Great sex

The older woman-younger man couple is a sexual match made in heaven.

Men's sex drive is stronger when they're younger, while women's peaks in their 30s and doesn't budge for another 20-odd years.

Fertility (or lack of it) plays a role too. Women don't always want men for their sperm. A woman who has had her family or who is past child-bearing age can have great sex without fear of pregnancy.

What the daters say: 'I love the sexual confidence of older women,' says Chris, 32. 'My last girlfriend was six years older than me, and my current partner is 10 years older. She looks young, so I've got the best of both worlds!

'Older women seem to have fewer hang-ups about their bodies. They know that sex isn't just about lying there looking fit; it's about loving what you're doing. Older women just seem to enjoy it more.'

2. Great conversation

As women grow older and become more sexually confident, we also tend to become more intellectually confident – and competent. In short, we're more fun to talk to.

What the daters say: 'I recently had a fling with a guy who was only 23,' says Sarah, 36. 'He's a musician, and he'd never been able to talk about music with girls his age. We'd sit up all night discussing David Bowie albums. He was amazed that a woman could talk about these things.

'In the end I needed someone with a bit more experience, but the fling gave me loads of confidence. Younger men think we're interesting and cool, because we've lived and travelled and we can talk about all sorts.'

3. Independence

Ask any man why he ditched his last girlfriend, and the word 'clingy' is likely to come up. The solution? Date a woman who has her own life, friends, career and home.

The Bridget Jones myth has done a great disservice to women over 30. Women do not all grow up with baby-hunger in their eyes, or with a need to settle down. More and more of us are going our own way, and men love it.

What the daters say: 'My previous girlfriends were younger than me,' says Jamie, 28. 'I liked being around them, but after a while I felt suffocated. It's like they couldn't enjoy themselves unless I was around, and that was too much responsibility. I like my space. I think most men do.

'Now I'm seeing a woman who's 35, and it's fantastic. She has her own place, and she loves her career and friends. Her social life doesn't always include me. She doesn't need me, she wants me. That really turns me on.'

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Part II: Traps to avoid

1. The money trap

Ryan, 29: 'My girlfriend is 39 and we've been together five years. I want to live together, and she doesn't. She bought her own place years ago. She's scared that we'll break up and I'll grab her money. That's not why I want her!'

What to do: Stop making assumptions. A younger man doesn't necessarily want an older woman for her money. Discuss your fears before making decisions.

2. The stereotype trap

Old assumptions die hard, and they can sabotage relationships. Chris, 25, says: 'I was seeing a 38-year-old woman for two years, and I really fell for her. But my friends constantly made fun about my 'old lady'. I couldn't handle it and neither could she, so we split up.'

What to do: Stop being so concerned about other people. They're not in this relationship. Show friends and family that you're perfectly suited, and the age gap will quickly fade into the background.

3. The sex gap

Lucy, 47: 'Actually, younger men aren't great in bed. They may be able to get it up more, but that's not what good sex is about. They just don't have enough experience to please you.'

What to do: What he lacks in experience he probably makes up for in enthusiasm. So show him how to please you. Tell him what feels good. He'll love that you're turning him into a sex god – and you get to reap the benefits.

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Part III: Age-gap love dictionary

The older women-younger men trend has given us a whole new lexicon of love...

Cougar bait (noun)

An attractive, confident woman over 40 who only dates younger men and isn't looking for a relationship – she enjoys the trill of the hunt!

Need to know: It's easy to find fans of older women on dating websites. Just look for the fit young chaps who give an older age range in the 'what I'm looking for' bit of their dating profile.

MILF (acronym)

'Mother I'd Like To F**k.' Sexually alluring mums – single, married, divorced, widowed, whatever. Spin-offs include GILF ('Grandmother I'd Like to...')

Need to know: The term came to prominence after the movie American Pie.

Oedipus complex (noun)

Freud's theory that all men subconsciously want to sleep with their mothers and kill their fathers.

Need to know: Someone better tell Ashton Kutcher's dad.

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Reasons Older Women Should Date Younger Men!!!!!

According to a story in today's Washington Post, women 50 and older almost always tell sites like eHarmony and Match.com that they're looking for a guy 2, 10 or 15 years younger. The ladies are online, and they're looking for love! Galen Buckwalter, chief scientist at eHarmony.com says, "Age, in and of itself, is not a factor in compatibility." And yet! It's perfectly normal and non-newsworthy that men date younger women all the damn time. But women looking for younger men online? Stop the presses! The fact is, older women should date younger men. Here's why:

1. They want to. "What do older women want? Younger men," begins the article. If a woman wants a man with more energy and less experience, why the hell shouldn't she try one?

2. "Older" doesn't mean what it used to. The article touches on the "new biology of aging," noting that when you calculate mortality risk, a 65-year-old woman is the biological equivalent of a 60-year-old man. Ladies with grown children are eating healthy and doing yoga, cardio striptease and Pilates (Looking at you, mom!). The character of the bitter widow or sad spinster hasn't been accurate since way before Mona was the one getting the most action on Who's The Boss?

3. Older dudes don't want women their own age anyway. According to the Post, 50 year-old men are looking for women six to 26 years younger. So a 50-year-old woman had betterkeep her options open... and "younger" is a pretty smart option. Otherwise how would anyone hook up?

4. To prove they can. It might not be politically correct to say so, but frankly, there's often a power in attracting someone younger than yourself. Historically, older women have been devalued and degraded. Women get the attention when they're hot young things, when they're mothers and when they're wise old "crones." The decades between child-bearing and sunset years? Overlooked. But these women are not dead! They should feel free to prove it to themselves and others.

5. Because we need a better word than "cougar." The image of a sleek predatory cat sort of captures a certain aspect of how some women might stalk and shred an unsuspecting gazelle of a man. But doesn't it conjure a certain single-minded desperation with a sexual focus? What about vivacious, smart, experienced, funny and super social ladies who just want to go on dates and see what happens? Are they cougars? Or are they more like butterflies, or owls, or, um, women? Can't we come up with something better? Maybe if legions of them start hitting the town with younger guys, we'll have to.

Younger men and Older Women: Can it Work?

Older woman seduces younger man. Sound familiar? It's a scene from the 1967 coming-of-age classic "The Graduate."

But high-profile Hollywood couples like Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins (12 years her junior) -- who met and began dating while filming an on-screen romance in the 1988 movie "Bull Durham" -- have proven that life can indeed imitate art when it comes to matters of the heart.

Theirs, however, is a real-life love story of an older woman and younger man -- something that is not so uncommon nowadays. A 2003 study by AARP revealed that 34 percent of all women over 40 in the survey were dating younger men, and 35 percent preferred it to dating older men.

"Societal attitudes have definitely changed," says Susan Winter, 52, co-author of "Older Women, Younger Men: New Options for Love and Romance" -- and she would know. At age 40, she was dating a 19-year-old. "We had to break it off. Quite frankly, his mother made it so impossible," Winter says of the six-year relationship, which inspired her book. "But (that kind of discrimination) would not be allowable now."

Hollywood in particular has defied the ageism stereotype, with celebrities like Madonna and Demi Moore marrying significantly younger men (a 10- and 15-year age gap, respectively, with director Guy Ritchie and actor Ashton Kutcher), and the public has come to accept it. See photos of some famous May-December couples

Moreover, says Winter, women have experienced a significant financial and status shift over the past half-century. "When women as a group are able to have their own economic and social standing and have a power base, they are now able to pick the man that they want rather than having to choose the man to support them and give them social status," Winter explains. "Now we have choices."

But these relationships aren't always portrayed in a positive light. Terms like "cougar" (slang for an older woman seeking a younger man) depict the woman as a predator, rather than an empowered, independent and loving person.

NBC aired a reality dating show this summer -- "Age of Love" -- that pitted women in their 20s against women in their 40s in a battle for the heart of tennis star Mark Philippoussis. Meanwhile, online dating sites like GoCougar.com urge older women who seek younger men to "get what you want."

Such pairings can and do work.

YOUNGER MAN

How to Look Younger: Men Learn The Tips To Turn The Clock On Rewind

Adult males, does looking in the mirror unease you? Are your pants getting tighter? Have you considered buying a new sports car - and after that oppose possessing a middle age crisis?

Well, do not worry to any extent further! I've used many products, and confirm that adult males can really look younger, occasionally as much as a decade younger. Learn how today with the right guidelines.

How To Look Young

Without further ado - these are definitely my best techniques to looking young:

HOW TO LOOK YOUNG 

Tip 1

Get rid of or trim that facial fuzz. In case you're still living in the 80's, I have to warn you that mustaches are so yesterday! Please do not sprout one if you want any chance with the ladies. Beards can look great on a man, but make sure that they are very neat and tidy. If you have an even growth, it may be better to simply have a goatee or or a little fluff under the bottom lip. A scraggly, uneven growth simply makes you look like you don't take care of your appearance.

Tip 2

This is another body hair tip and includes removing curly hair shrubs out of your eye brows and the eardrums. Will not only do the following help you to look historical, they're pretty unpleasant - especially to women!

Tip 3

Absorb in the tummy. As adult males age they often times obtain weight around the tummy region. As well as not being strong, it is equally pretty dreadful. Try and lose the load, in addition to the meantime sport body formative vests that shove the tummy in and then just give you a better looking body. Also, to reduce the look of your keg belly - prevent sagging trousers and pants together with pleets. These types of will simply increase mass to your area.

Tip 4

Having a good cleanliness everyday such as coiffure tooth twofold each day, using entry laundry, bathing day-to-day, and sporting after shave are necessary to have that youthful energy levels. It straightforward show's the modern world which you care and value on your own.

Tip 5

Guys figure out how to dress good! This now might be more leisurely said versus done, most especially if you have been residing in a walking fit for 10 years. Start with modern-day fashions, just a considerable clothes shop and take or beg the marketing assistant for some information. Also watch the searching catalogs and examine just what the models are wearing.

I would suggest using various shades and form for your requirements look for a few that work.

Tip 6

Look and feel energized. No likes a lifeless person! Get out and do some more exercise, eat some more fruits and vegetables. The longer healthy and energetic you are, the younger you will appear.

Tip 7

Have a variety of pastimes. You will not appear young and active if you're caught indoor along with your hallmark selection. Investigate a full world of pursuits and pursuits and your body and mind live.

Learn how to look younger today! 

YOUNGER MAN

How to Look Younger: Men Learn The Tips To Turn The Clock On Rewind

Adult males, does looking in the mirror unease you? Are your pants getting tighter? Have you considered buying a new sports car - and after that oppose possessing a middle age crisis?

Well, do not worry to any extent further! I've used many products, and confirm that adult males can really look younger, occasionally as much as a decade younger. Learn how today with the right guidelines.

How To Look Young

Without further ado - these are definitely my best techniques to looking young:

HOW TO LOOK YOUNG 

Tip 1

Get rid of or trim that facial fuzz. In case you're still living in the 80's, I have to warn you that mustaches are so yesterday! Please do not sprout one if you want any chance with the ladies. Beards can look great on a man, but make sure that they are very neat and tidy. If you have an even growth, it may be better to simply have a goatee or or a little fluff under the bottom lip. A scraggly, uneven growth simply makes you look like you don't take care of your appearance.

Tip 2

This is another body hair tip and includes removing curly hair shrubs out of your eye brows and the eardrums. Will not only do the following help you to look historical, they're pretty unpleasant - especially to women!

Tip 3

Absorb in the tummy. As adult males age they often times obtain weight around the tummy region. As well as not being strong, it is equally pretty dreadful. Try and lose the load, in addition to the meantime sport body formative vests that shove the tummy in and then just give you a better looking body. Also, to reduce the look of your keg belly - prevent sagging trousers and pants together with pleets. These types of will simply increase mass to your area.

Tip 4

Having a good cleanliness everyday such as coiffure tooth twofold each day, using entry laundry, bathing day-to-day, and sporting after shave are necessary to have that youthful energy levels. It straightforward show's the modern world which you care and value on your own.

Tip 5

Guys figure out how to dress good! This now might be more leisurely said versus done, most especially if you have been residing in a walking fit for 10 years. Start with modern-day fashions, just a considerable clothes shop and take or beg the marketing assistant for some information. Also watch the searching catalogs and examine just what the models are wearing.

I would suggest using various shades and form for your requirements look for a few that work.

Tip 6

Look and feel energized. No likes a lifeless person! Get out and do some more exercise, eat some more fruits and vegetables. The longer healthy and energetic you are, the younger you will appear.

Tip 7

Have a variety of pastimes. You will not appear young and active if you're caught indoor along with your hallmark selection. Investigate a full world of pursuits and pursuits and your body and mind live.

Learn how to look younger today!